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I was catching up on my tv today and I saw an ep of Grey’s Anatomy plus I remember a conversation with a friend of mine and it got me thinking again. The conversation went like this: “Oh I know why girls screw you over” “Oh yea? Why is that?” “because you don’t get jealous, they think you don’t care and so one mistake leads to another and boom they screw you over” “An interesting idea…so I should have been more jealous? I don’t understand, I thought it was over a matter of trust?” “It is but girls want to know that their b/f are jealous sometimes” “sigh….girl logic makes no sense…girls are evil” That’s part one, the second part is the ep of Grey’s I saw today that has to do with a women having an aneurism in her brain and so now believing that she has a limited time her husband and her are traveling the world and doing everything they can together. When one of the doc said that he can remove the aneurism she at first refused because she doesn’t want to go back to the way things were before where her husband stop noticing her and paid no attention to her. The husband then goes up to the doc and tell him that yes it was his fault for 15 years he just stop seeing and now all he see is her, he realize his mistake and wants to make up for it. Without going into it too much more, they ended up having the surgery and was a success and they lived happily ever after. What I got from both things is that I think sometimes even though one side is clearly wrong, there is still something the other side did that caused it. I’ve have looked at my pass and even though it seems to be that I did nothing to warrant what happen, I’m sure I did something or didn’t do something that might have lead to it. I’m not excusing her for what happen but I believe its less one sided now. Although I say women are evil and I still believe they are, I can at least say in their mind they are justified even if it’s only in girl logic which is no logic at all. After all of this I guess all I’m saying is shit happens and even if it sucks to be you for the time, there is very little you can do and all you can do is try to get pass it and hope for the best. As for me, I don’t really know whats going to happen but for now its ok.

Jee Yuan

"One can always be kind to people about whom one cares nothing."   - Oscar Wilde

I went to a friend’s birthday party yesterday night. It was at a club called Deep. All in all it was a good time, we had a bit of confusion in the beginning about cover and we had to down 3 quick drinks to make up for it at the open bar but after that it was good. The music was ok, our guess of honor was a bit late but it was all good she came with girls and meet up with some more so it went will. We stay til around 3 before we bounce it was a much better run this time then the last time when we went out and the best we got was 3 old FOBs for our troubles. I’ll post some pics later I think but as I was the cam person not too many pics of me in it so I don’t know if I will. On another note, my friend and I got to talk again about settling and what the difference is between what we expect and what does happen. I think I’m sticking with my way, no skip of the heart move on to the next one. Never Settle!!! ;)

Jee Yuan

"Though I am not naturally honest, I am so sometimes by chance."   - William Shakespeare