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Today I sat down and talked with two girls that is or was in a long term relationship and I’ve explain my situation a little bit more clearly to them. They were extremely nice conversations. In the later conversation she really got me, she knew almost exactly what I was going though, and she made no pretense of what its going to be like. She told me straight out that this is going to hurt and hurt a lot for a while and there is nothing I can do about it. I found that to be the most refreshing, she said she hated people telling her that it was ok because it isn’t, something is now missing from you’re life that has been there for so long and it takes time, lots of time to get uses to it again.
I really appreciate all the support my friends have given me and I’m touched that I have so many caring friend, people that I just met telling me they would go kick the shit out of the guys ass(Thanks guys!!!) One girl offered to take me to a strip club to make me feel better and others are all ready to go get drunk with me anytime I want. My best friend being who he is, is always there to make to laugh about the dumbest things and think back to the past we shared, before we discover girls (me like 13, him like 24….lol j/k) I know not many of my friends read this blog but if you do I want to know I really really appreciate all that you try to do to help me though this.

“Be courteous to all, but intimate with few, and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence. True friendship is a plant of slow growth, and must undergo and withstand the shocks of adversity before it is entitled to the appellation.”

George Washington (1732 - 1799)